Thursday, September 17, 2015

FAITH LOOKS AT THE EVIDENCE


By Ada Brownell
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for; the evidence of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1 NKJ). “Faith is being sure of what we hope for; and confident of what we do not see” (Hebrews 11:1 NIV).

Yet, we humans don’t think much about what we can’t see, and don’t pay enough attention to what we do see.

Almost every day the majority of people see eggs. Never do we look at the slime and think of what we can’t see: a living creature. Feathers. A beak for pecking. A voice for clucking or crowing. Yellow feet for walking. Wings. Machinery to produce more eggs and chickens. Beady little eyes that blink and see. Ultimately perhaps, a platter of delicious fried chicken.

In the same way, we never think of how we began as a tiny fertilized egg with all the DNA and genetic info from our parents to make us who we are. We don’t even try to fathom the miracles of our bodies—our brains, growth, our senses, how our limbs work and bend in all the right places. We had not one, but two sets of teeth, so convenient because baby teeth wouldn’t last or work well for adults.
Most of us have no idea of the miraculous functions of our organs and cells.  We seldom think of how life began in the first place.

Then there is the urgent need for humans to worship and know Someone beyond ourselves. If they have never heard the gospel and don’t know God, nearly every people group in the world invents something to worship. They make idols, worship the sun, the moon, the stars, mountains, animals, the earth, ancestors, men who claim they’re god, and even worship themselves.

All my life I’ve heard testimonies of people who tried everything the world has to offer except the one true God and they’re hearts are still empty. One of the richest men in the world said, “Do you know what it’s like to be able to buy anything? If someone made it, I could buy it. One day I sat on the bed beside my wife and said, ‘Is this all there is?’”

That’s when he reached out and found the Lord and for the first time he and his wife were filled with real joy and contentment.

What satisfies most is not visible. You don’t hold your breath because you can’t see oxygen. You can’t see gravity, but it still keeps you from falling into space or jumping off tall buildings. From an early age we learned whatever we drop splats and when we fall, we go down. We can’t see the pull of gravity, but we believe in its effects.

Hebrews 11 goes on to say, “By faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that the things which are seen were not made out of things which are visible” (verse 3).
Long before men discovered all the amazing things at work in the invisibile, God revealed it to those who believed. Like Job, when he was discouraged, God reminded him. Check out the whole conversation in Job 38. Here are excerpts.

“Where were you when I laid the earth’s foundation? Who marked off its dimensions? On what were its footings set? Who set up the sea behind doors? What is the way to the abode of light?” The chapter is filled with awesome challenges to those who refuse to see the evidence of a loving, powerful Creator or are doubting He’s there.

Evidence of God’s handiwork is everywhere and when we notice, we can see it in our lives. Those who experience Redemption know it came from beyond what our eyes can see. How can our guilt for sin disappear in a moment? Our desires change the instant we connect with our Maker. When someone is healed do they see the power at work? Even natural healing that occurs in our bodies after injury or illness, do we see how God placed healing mechanisms inside us?

Oh, but we can see the evidence, and faith leads us to look at evidence. When we face a crisis, thank God for answered prayer in the past. Even though we don’t see how it happened, we recall the evidence.

We have evidence our Heavenly Father is concerned about us. Hebrews 11 reminds of that, “But without faith it is impossible to please him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and he is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him” (Hebrews 11:6).

Allow yourself to examine the evidence and believe in the invisible!

© Ada Brownell 2015
MEET ADA BROWNELL
Ada Brownell is the author of six books, about 300 stories and articles in Christian publications, and she spent a large chunk of her life as a reporter, seven years of that as a medical writer, mostly for The Pueblo Chieftain in Colorado. She and her husband L.C., have five children, one of them in heaven, eight wonderful grandchildren.and two great-grandchildren.
Among her books: The Lady Fugitive, an historical romance; Imagine the Future You, a youth/parent Bible study; Joe the Dreamer: The Castle and the Catapult, a novel for middle grade up; Swallowed by Life: Mysteries of Death, Resurrection and the Eternal, evidence we’re more than a body; Facts, Faith and Propaganda, a book designed to build your faith; and Confessions of a Pentecostal, out of print but released in 2012 for Kindle; Most books are available in paper or for Kindle. Imagine the Future You audiobook is available at www.Audible.com  Free book with new Audible membership.

Amazon Ada Brownell author page: https://www.amazon.com/author/adabrownell
Twitter: @AdaBrownell

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Sunday, August 23, 2015

WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR JOY?



By Ada Nicholson Brownell

 “Even your Word agrees, ‘In this world we will have tribulation,’” I complained to the Lord one day, I suppose to justify the mullygrubs that had me by the heart.
Silent a moment, I felt the agony of depression. Then the remainder of Jesus’ words from that scripture came to mind. “But be of good cheer! I have overcome the world.”[1] Suddenly raptureous joy filled me. I was reminded my joyfulness doesn’t depend on circumstances or people.
Yet, I know I can kill joy if led away by false prophets. It would be easy to find someone to tell me to put myself first and seek my own happiness above all, when true joy comes from God and putting others before me.
“What happened to your joy?”[2] Paul asked the Galatian church after they were led astray by false prophets who made them forget faith and grace.
Paul spoke of joy often, although most of his God-inspired writing was done from a prison cell. Over and over he tells the Philippians, “Rejoice!”.
I wonder what Paul would tell me and the American church today. My family gave their hearts to the Lord in the era when people revealed their joy with such loud singing and shouting people peeked in the windows to see what was happening, sort of like Zacchaeus climbing the tree to see above the crowd following Jesus after He healed a blind man. Many gave their hearts to the Lord.
Joy, however, wasn’t in a style of music they heard, a red-faced shouting preacher, or people’s voices. Joy came from the truths people grasped with their hearts. People rejoiced from sins forgiven, even when it took an hour of struggling against Satan before their wills were submitted to God. People shouted praises and danced in the aisles when they received the infilling of the Holy Ghost, healing in their bodies, victory over fear, victory over habits, restored marriages, loved ones saved, peace in life’s storms.
Joy bubbled because the Lord would be with them in the valley of death and they would see loved ones again. Christians could get downright rowdy with joyful noise when they remembered their hope, “The Lord Himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.”[3]
One night, my unsaved aunt, a young woman with her life in crisis, came to church with my mom.
“I’m lost!” she screamed, interrupting the pastor’s sermon. “I’m lost!”
 She ran to the altar wept, screamed more, groaned, and put the fear of God in me and my siblings. Faithful Christians gathered around her with prayer rising like thunder. Then joy hit.  My aunt received the Holy Spirit, shouted and praised God around the altars, then danced and even ran across the platform rejoicing because of hope and sins forgiven.
She was so filled with joy she went to her night-club friends the next morning, feeling they would want what she found. Our aunt lived to age 92, still dancing and praising God. My siblings and I never forgot what happened that night, and still talk about it 60 years later.
Anyone who serves the Lord with all his heart has a measure of joy because the springs of living water Jesus gives never run dry.[4]
I’m praying for the day when our hearts, songs, services, our lives, once again reflect joy.
In the same conversation Jesus had with his disciples about cheer, He told them and us to “Ask God for the impossible, and receive, that our joy might be full.”[5] He explained for a little while they wouldn’t see Him, because He was going to the Father.“You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy.”[6]
 Peter spoke of our faith in Jesus filling us with “joy unspeakable and full of glory.”[7] Joy sometimes came when the disciples and apostles faced seemingly impossible circumstances. Paul knew he probably would lay down his life for his faith, yet he wrote of joy.
Most amazing, Jesus for the joy that was set before him, endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.[8]
 In the letter Paul wrote to the Galatians asking about their joy, he listed joy among fruits that come from living for God in contrast to a life of sin. Most important, according to Jesus’ words in John 15, if we are to bear fruit such as unspeakable joy, we need to be rooted and grounded in Him and His Word.
When my little branch is nourished by my Savior, joy pops out somewhere. 




[1] John 16:32-33
[2] Galatians 4:15
[3] 1 Thessalonians 4:16-18
[4] John 7:37-39
[5] John 16:24
[6] John 16:20
[7] 1 Peter 1:8
[8] Hebrews 12:1-3

Wednesday, August 5, 2015

Seven Ways to Stretch Spiritually

Seven Ways to Stretch Spiritually
By Ada Brownell
When they think about stretching, health conscious adults head for the gym. But what about spiritual fitness?
With disuse, faith gets flabby. Here are a few spiritual stretches I did the last couple of years and plan to continue.
1.      DESIRE TO ENLARGE YOUR TERRORITY. Pray the prayer of Jabez every day and mean it: “Oh, that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain!” (1 Chronicles 4:9-10NKJ). After I began praying the prayer, new opportunities opened that surprised me. I realized I had more potential than I thought, and God was with me!
2.      STRETCH YOUR ABILITIES
·         Dust off old talents and develop others. You never know what the Lord might use, even if it’s only to increase your contentment.
·         Witness to others when opportunities open, and resist fear.
·         Tell your family how and why you are a Christian and share a witness.
3.      STRETCH YOUR KNOWLEDGE
·         Get a good study Bible or join a Bible study group. Last year I asked my husband to buy me a new Bible because I wanted the included commentary. I often study a book of the Bible at a time or one subject. Recently I did an intense study on faith using my study Bible. I also looked up scriptures in different versions and on biblegateway.com
·         If you don’t have a ministry, pray and see where God leads. I grew spiritually when I taught Christian education classes because it stretched me.
·         Learn new things that will enhance your career. Ask God for direction and take a class, do research, or take advice so you can be your best.
4.      STRETCH YOUR LOVE
·         Put into practice everything you know about being a better wife, mom, grandma, husband, father or grandpa.
·         Contact relatives and friends you haven’t communicated with recently, and visit neighbors.
·         Pray for supernatural love to help you show love to people who are difficult.
5.      STRETCH YOUR COMPASSION
·         Give to a credible organization that helps those in need.
·         Encourage the grieving, the ill, the elderly and lonely with a card, email, phone call or something from your kitchen.
·         Ask your pastor if there is someone who especially needs encouragement or help.
6. STRETCH YOUR FAITH
·    Believe God for something you need or desire that looks impossible.
·    Venture out and do what you know God wants you to do, but you’ve hesitated.
·    When you pray, give your faith a jump start with the Word.
7.      STRETCH YOUR THOUGHTS, PATIENCE AND SPEECH TO PLEASE GOD
·         With David I pray, “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer” (Psalm 19:15).
·         I pray, “Fill me with the fruits of the Spirit. ‘For the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy peace, longsuffering (patience), kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control’” (Galatians 5:22-23).



Friday, July 24, 2015

Is it possible to be delivered from fear when death is near?

MORE QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS FROM SWALLOWED BY LIFE: MYSTERIES OF DEATH, RESURRECTION AND THE ETERNAL


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Study Questions for Chapter Three


1. Where do you feel the music Carolyn heard originated?
2. Would you go for a bone marrow transplant if  it could save your life?
3. Is it possible to truly be delivered from fear when death is near? How?
4. Is it normal to be filled with shock and disbelief when you lose someone, or does this only happen to imperfect people?
5. Think about a time when a scripture breathed peace to your heart. Share this experience with others.
6. Would losing a loved one change your view of God? If you don’t receive a miracle, is there still hope?
7. Do you understand Jesus taking the sting of death away?
8. Are you surprised to learn even heroes of the faith went through sorrow, grief, pain, and torture, while others received miracles? What was their bottom line?
9. Have you noticed how many scriptures refer to eternal life? What is your favorite?
10. Do you have a favorite song about our hope for eternity with Jesus?

Quiz Answers for Swallowed by Life Chapter Three


1. The author believes the music was heavenly, but give your own answer.
2. Again, give your own opinion.
3. Through faith and God’s grace and mercy.
4. These feelings are normal stages of grief.
5. Share your thoughts.
6. Losing someone to death helps us find out whether we believe what we think we do. 1 Corinthians 13 says hope abides forever.
7. 1 Corinthians 15:56 says, “The sting of death is sin,” and if we have repented of our sins and accepted Jesus as Savior, sin and the sting are gone. The previous verse says, “Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your sting?”
8. They were seeking another country, eternal in the heavens, whose Builder and Maker is God (Hebrews 11).
9. Share your favorite scriptures about eternal life.
10. Hymnbooks are full of songs about heaven. One of the author’s favorites is “The Unclouded Day.”









Monday, July 20, 2015

Truth Guarantee? Think again.


SWALLOWED BY LIFE

By Ada Brownell

Chapter Two

 Answers to Study Questions from Swallowed by Life posted yesterday
1. The polygraph lie detector, rice in the mouth, making a person grasp a hot rod, truth serum.
2. The polygraph. It’s not admissible in many courts as evidence. Truth often is elusive.
3. Believing in God and keeping the commandment, “Thou shalt not bear false witness” causes people to tell the truth as nothing else can. When that is lost, whose word can you trust?
4. Yes. There are numerous references, including 2 Peter 1:21 and John 17:16–18.
5. Forty different authors with varying occupations, inspired by the Holy Ghost over a period of one thousand five hundred years, on three continents, and in three languages.
6. Joseph Smith. Mohammad, with some additions by his followers.
7. Because they all agree on hundreds of controversial subjects, although they were imperfect humans.
8. Because faith is necessary for salvation.
9. Jesus is the only way of salvation and the Bible reveals Him to us. At least a person needs to hear what’s written in the Bible, the story of redemption, to believe and receive salvation.

10. Think about what you believe, then share your thoughts.

Sunday, July 19, 2015

HOW DO YOU DETERMINE TRUTH?

Discussion questions from Swallowed by Life: Mysteries of Death, Resurrection and the Eternal

By Ada Brownell

Chapter Two

1. Name at least one historical method for determining truth. Would you trust any of them?

2. What is the most popular method of getting at the truth today? 
 Do you think it’s trustworthy?

3. Was something  lost when people quit believing in God and swearing on the Bible? Why?

4. Does the Bible claim to be the source of truth? What evidence do we have for that claim?

5. Who wrote the Bible? How many authors? Were they all prophets?

6. Who wrote the Book of Mormon? The Koran?

7. Why is having more than one author significant?
8. Why do we still need faith that the Bible is true?
9. Is belief in the Bible necessary to find the truth about life beyond physical death?
 10. What is it about life that most amazes you? What do you know about God that causes the most awe in you?


Ada Brownell bio
Ada Brownell has been writing for Christian publications since age 15 and spent much of her life as a daily newspaper reporter. She has a B.S. degree in Mass Communications and worked most of her career at The Pueblo Chieftain in Colo., where she spent the last seven years as a medical writer. After moving to Springfield, MO in her retirement, she continues to free lance for Christian publications and write non-fiction and fiction books.
     Twitter: @adellerella
     Blog: http://inkfromanearthenvessel.blogspot.com Stick to Your Soul Encouragement

     Amazon Ada Brownell author page: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B001KJ2C06


Saturday, July 18, 2015

Answers to Study Questions from Swallowed by Life (Chapter One)

Answers to Study Questions

SWALLOWED BY LIFE; MYSTERIES OF DEATH,RESURRECTION AND THE ETERNAL

Chapter One



1. Oxidation. Aging.
2. Several million
3. We start as a tiny egg. Organs and other body parts can be removed or transplanted from another person and it doesn’t change who the person is. Cell death and regeneration. Weight gain and loss.
4. Seven days.
5. Seven years.
6. A leap of faith. Because there is no way we can prove it exists beyond the grave and because faith is required for Salvation—the way to eternal life.
7. “While we live in these earthly bodies, we groan and sigh, but it’s not that we want to die and get rid of these bodies that clothe us. Rather, we want to put on our new bodies so that these dying bodies will be swallowed up by life” (2 Corinthians 5:4 NLT).
8. Answers here depend on each individual. Be truthful to yourself.
9. Same as above.
10. Same as above.

MEET ADA BROWNELL
Ada Brownell blogs and writes with Stick-to-Your-Soul Encouragement. She is the author of six books, about 300 stories and articles in Christian publications, and she spent a large chunk of her life as a reporter, mostly for The Pueblo Chieftain in Colorado. A Bible student since her teens and a youth educator, she also taught on the Bible and science; courses from Josh McDowell’s Evidence that Demands a Verdict; and other faith-building courses. She now lives in Missouri, a beautiful state except for tornadoes and chiggers.
Among her books: The Lady Fugitive, an historical romance; Imagine the Future You, a youth/parent Bible study;.Joe the Dreamer: The Castle and the Catapult, a novel for middle grade up; Swallowed by Life: Mysteries of Death, Resurrection and the Eternal, includes evidence we’re more than a body; Facts, Faith and Propaganda, a book that unmasks propaganda as well as reveals amazing truth; and Confessions of a Pentecostal, out of print but released in 2012 for Kindle; Most books are available in paper or for Kindle. Imagine the Future You audiobook is available at www.Audible.com  Free book with new Audible membership.
Amazon Ada Brownell author page: https://www.amazon.com/author/adabrownell
Twitter: @AdaBrownell


Friday, July 17, 2015

Burn out or rust out? What is the process in the human body similar to rust?

Swallowed By Life
Discussion Questions

 By Ada Brownell

Preface and Chapter One

 Discussion questions for Chapter 1 of Swallowed by Life (Answers Tomorrow)
1.      You’ve heard people say they’d rather burn out than rust out. What is the process that occurs to the human body that is similar to rust on iron? When this process occurs in people it is called  _________.
2.       How many people are estimated to suffer from chronic or terminal diseases at one time in the United States?
3.      Name three things you know about the human body that shows we are more than flesh and blood.
4.      How many days does it take for the skin to rebuild?
5.      In how many years does the skeleton become a totally new one?
6.      The mystery of eternal life requires ____________________. Why?
7.      Do you know the scripture this book is based upon and the reference for where it is found in the Bible?
8.      Does death being swallowed by life make sense to you? Why or why not?
9.      Does 2 Corinthians 5:3-5 bring joy or confusion? How? Why?

10.   How does the message of this scripture compare to John 3:16? Can you think of other scriptures with a similar message?



SWALLOWED BY LIFE: Mysteries of Death, Resurrection and the Eternal

                                          By Ada Brownell

Do you know evidence shows we’re more than a physical body? The author, a prolific religion writer and retired medical journalist, talks about the evidence; the wonder of life with all its electrical systems; the awesome truth about cell death and regeneration; mysteries surrounding the change from mortal to immortal; where we go when our body dies; resurrection; and a glimpse at what we will do in heaven.

Where you can find Swallowed by Life:
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Ada Brownell bio
Ada Brownell has been writing for Christian publications since age 15 and spent much of her life as a daily newspaper reporter. She has a B.S. degree in Mass Communications and worked most of her career at The Pueblo Chieftain in Colo., where she spent the last seven years as a medical writer. After moving to Springfield, MO in her retirement, she continues to free lance for Christian publications and write non-fiction and fiction books.

     Twitter: @adellerella
     Blog: http://inkfromanearthenvessel.blogspot.com Stick to Your Soul Encouragement
     Amazon Ada Brownell author page: http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B001KJ2C06



Friday, June 12, 2015

THE ONLY WAY OUT IS UP



By Ada Brownell

I recently did research for a newspaper op-ed piece about the perilous condition in which our nation finds itself. The piece appeared in The Pueblo Chieftain December 2011, “The only way out may be up.”
In the 1950s, my husband and I lived in a cabin on top of Tennessee Pass. Les was agent-telegrapher at the Pando Reio Grande Railroad depot, across from Camp Hale, near Leadville. Colo..
One afternoon soldiers arrived on the train. A young man carrying his duffle bag gazed around in awe.
 “Mountains this way. Mountains that way. Mountains over there. Mountains over here. The only way out of this place is up!”
America finds itself trapped in a similar place.

After discussing the national debt and other problems, I wrote:

Our society careens near the precipice on the dangerous curves of moral bankruptcy. Similar to the narrow highway over Battle Mountain, a way out of Camp Hale, we’re near the edge and in a storm it’s difficult to see. Battle Mountain has few guard rails because highway crews need to shove the deep snow over the side.
 Guard rails that historically steered our nation morally have been dismantled— The Ten Commandments nudged over the cliff. Children are taught to worship the created rather than the loving Creator. They grow up believing morality doesn’t matter. The Centers for Disease Control reports we kill 234 babies for every 1,000 live births. In 2008, CDC reports 825,564 legal abortions. CDC’s 2010 report on Sexually Transmitted Diseases identified STDs as one of the most critical health challenges facing our nation, with 19 million new infections each year costing the health care system $17 billion annually.
 At the same time, Freedom of religion is being strangled while secularism becomes the national cult. On Dec. 2, 2011, the Family Research Council released this memo obtained from the Navy concerning Walter Reed Hospital in Maryland: “Navy officials have announced that ‘no religious items (including Bibles, reading material, and/or artifacts) are allowed to be given away or used during a visit. FRC brought the memo to the attention of Congress and Rep. Steve King. After speaking to Walter Reed, they were assured the Navy was rescinding the policy.
Many of us love money, things and entertainment more than one another. A large number of couples no longer honor their marriage vows and in their search to find joy compromise everything important and thereby drop into the chasm.
We stand in the storm, mountains to conquer, but no longer have strength or tools to scale them. A large number of folks require alcohol to have a good time or to soothe the conscience and kill the emotional pain. A good portion of our society seeks something stronger, according to the tons of illegal and prescription mind-altering drugs sold.
I believe with the soldier of years ago who said, “The only way out of here is up!”

I added repentance is our nation’s only hope and God is the only one who can lift the heavy burdens of sin, unbelief and rebellion that plague the individual, rob him of peace, strip him of joy, and plunge him into a constant state of despair.
Ignoring the chasm beside the treacherous road we travel will not give us peace. We do need to look up, and when we do, we need to believe that “He exists and that He rewards those who diligently seek Him” (Hebrews 11: 6).


Wednesday, May 20, 2015

HELP FOR THE GRIEVING AND DYING

By Ada Brownell

 When we walk through difficult times, we need physical, emotional and spiritual help. There is plenty out there if you know what to look for and where to go.
When our daughter Carolyn began to recover enough after chemotherapy, she urgently desired emotional help. I was a thousand or more miles away, and that’s one reason why I wrote Swallowed by Life. I told her about the Cancer Society’s support groups, called her every day, prayed, and flew to see her twice in two months.
Yet, a diagnosis of a terminal, debilitating or painful disease is a whopping load for the patient and his loved ones to carry emotionally, even when the Lord walks with you every moment of the day.
I have several recommendations picked up through wandering around in the medical community and picking experts’ brains.
1. GET A GRIEF-MATE
Find a spiritual partner to help you in your fear and grief. Arrange to contact your grief-mate when you feel overcome by fear, you are terribly sick, have a situation you don’t feel able to handle, or a decision with which you need help.
Your grief mate can be a pastor, a counselor, a Sunday school teacher, a friend or a relative who is spiritually strong.
I have a friend who has battled cancer for years and it recently returned and her husband, Gerald, just discovered he has prostate cancer. Yet, she leads a cancer support group at our church. While she spends much of her time encouraging others, she relies on the love, prayers and fellowship of people filled with compassion.
                        2. GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO GRIEVE  
Allow yourself to talk about your loved one, or about your own illness and the doctor's prognosis.
Cry. Jesus wept when he heard his friend, Lazarus was dead. When I was grieving, I set aside a devotional time every day when I could get alone with God and talk to him about my grief. During the day and when you're in public, you sometimes have to shove it away. But I felt better knowing I'd have that time in my upstairs bedroom kneeling and crying before God, telling him about my broken heart.
Each day I stripped another layer off a part of me that felt as if I had died, too, and helped me keep a focus that I am still living and need to fulfill whatever purposes God has for my life here.
It helps to understand the stages of grief and that grieving is normal both for the dying and those left behind.
According to Drs. Frank Minirth and Paul Meier in their book, Happiness is a Choice,[1] there are five stages of grief which occur to anyone who has experienced the death of a loved one or discovered he has an incurable illness. Even Christians will have these grief reactions.
1.   The first stage of grief usually is denial.  The person refuses to believe that what is happening is true.  This stage normally doesn’t last long.
2.   The second stage is anger turned outward.  In this stage people sometimes feel angry at God, their doctors, or anyone they feel they can blame for their problem.  Sometimes people even angry at someone who died.  Other people get angry at those in good health or those who haven’t lost a loved one.
3.   At stage three, we have anger turned inward.  The grieving person begins to feel guilty, then begins to be angry with himself.  He absurdly begins to blame himself for everything.
4.   Stage four is when the person feels genuine grief.  Tears and sorrow are normal and help the individual get grief out. Even though we know there is hope for those who “die in the Lord” there should be genuine grief.
5.   The fifth stage is the resolution stage where the person comes to acceptance of the event.  This stage is the result of a person working through the four other grief stages.
                  3. LOOK AT EVERY MOMENT OF LIFE AS A GIFT
When you’re the person who is dying, you still have a purpose in life. I probably told you this before, but when my dad ended up in a nursing home, he kept saying, “I’m no good for anything.”
“Don’t be ridiculous!” I said. “You’re still not done raising your family. You’re showing us how to grow old.”
 As long as we have breath and our mental faculties we can pray for others, love them, and be an example.
      Don’t let death swallow the days and the hours remaining when there is still life. Love. Smile. Rejoice in the hope you have. Do things you enjoy. Even when you’re ill, you can eat a favorite flavor of ice cream, watch a butterfly outside tasting nectar, listen to a bird’s song, go outside and look at the stars and marvel at the One who created them.             




[1] Baker Books, 1983/2007

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Saturday, April 18, 2015

SAFETY IN THE EARTHQUAKES OF LIFE

SAFETY IN THE EARTHQUAKES OF LIFE

By Ada Brownell

      Our daughter lay dying down the hospital corridor and my heart screamed, “Where are you God?”
      It was the first time in my life an earthquake struck my faith in the message of John 3:16: “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son that whoever believes in Him shall  not perish but have everlasting life.”
      The Bible says, however, if you build your life on the sure foundation of Jesus Christ you can stand through the storms, even a large spiritual and emotional quakes and the aftershocks, as I discovered.
      The interesting thing about faith is it’s an act of the will. “Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see,” we’re told in Hebrews 11:1 (NIV). The scripture further explains: “By faith we understand that the universe was formed at God’s command. So that what is seen was not made out of what was visible…. Without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him (verses 3, 6).
      When we back up into Hebrews 10 we’re admonished to keep believing, even when our faith has been shaken: “So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised. He who is coming will come and will not delay. But my righteous one will live by faith. And if he shrinks back, I will not be pleased with him” (Hebrews 10:35-39).
Carolyn Brownell Coney

1959-1990
            Abraham after living a long life of believing and communing with God had his crises when Sarah got tired of waiting and tried to bring about their desires for a child herself. But apparently Abraham kept believing he would father a son and many nations: And being not weak in faith, he considered not his own body now dead, when he was about an hundred years old, neither yet the deadness of Sarah's womb: He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strong in faith, giving glory to God” (Romans 4:19-20)
           But God was good on his promises, as He always is. Sarah did become with child and Isaac was born.
            Through prayer, study of the Word and surrounding myself with brothers and sisters in Christ, I found I truly believed those who have faith in Jesus will never die, but have eternal life.
            As a Bible student and a medical reporter, I wrote about my journey and the evidence that's everywhere that shows we're than a body.
            Even spring should remind us, there is Resurrection!
            We still miss our Carolyn, but we'll live with her and Jesus forever!

© Copyrigh Ada Brownell April 2015


Summary of Swallowed by Life

SWALLOWED BY LIFE: Mysteries of Death, Resurrection and the Eternal

By Ada Brownell

Do you believe you could live with someone else’s heart or kidneys, but not without your body? Evidence shows we’re more than flesh. The author, a prolific religion writer and retired medical journalist, talks about the evidence; the wonder of life with all its electrical systems; the awesome truth about cell death and regeneration; mysteries surrounding the change from mortal to immortal; where we go when our body dies; resurrection; and a glimpse at what we will do in heaven. Questions and answers make this non-fiction inspirational book a great text for group study. It’s written for support groups, religion classes, people with chronic or terminal illness, individuals who fear death or are curious about it, the grieving, and those who give them counsel.

Review: “It was wonderful how the author merged the medical with the spiritual.”
Another review: I was surprised by the high-quality, intriguing group study I found in Swallowed by LIFE! It's hard to find books with good discussion questions like this. I can predict some GREAT dialogues happening because of the thought-provoking nature of the chapters and the questions. It would be a study for people who want to be real and honest in their spiritual walks.

Where you can find Swallowed by Life:
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And you can see reviews on GoodReads http://ow.ly/cJmMe

Christian Publishers Outlet in Springfield, MO and Scripture Supply in Pueblo, Colo., also have the paperback